Worst thread I’ve ever started, for sure.
Let’s say, long ago, I was in love with a lady. Let’s say that she was in love with me, too. Let’s also suppose that we’ve kept in constant touch, despite travels and tribulations, and just for the hell of it, let’s also suppose that we’re both in failed or failing marriages. Let’s further suppose that we are both still in love with at least the idea of each other, after two decades.
What would you do?
[QUOTE=submessenger;2889187]Worst thread I’ve ever started, for sure.
Let’s say, long ago, I was in love with a lady. Let’s say that she was in love with me, too. Let’s also suppose that we’ve kept in constant touch, despite travels and tribulations, and just for the hell of it, let’s also suppose that we’re both in failed or failing marriages. Let’s further suppose that we are both still in love with at least the idea of each other, after two decades.
What would you do?[/QUOTE]
Take care of business at hand if you are in failing marriage. Fix it or get a divorce. Get your head straight then see if you want to get involved with her.
One thing at a time. Depending on the situation of the divorce, that could be easy or difficult.
[QUOTE=BKR;2889189]Take care of business at hand if you are in failing marriage. Fix it or get a divorce. Get your head straight then see if you want to get involved with her.
One thing at a time. Depending on the situation of the divorce, that could be easy or difficult.[/QUOTE]
Fucking yes. Twice. Well… Hypothetically twice, of course.
[QUOTE=submessenger;2889187]Worst thread I’ve ever started, for sure.
Let’s say, long ago, I was in love with a lady. Let’s say that she was in love with me, too. Let’s also suppose that we’ve kept in constant touch, despite travels and tribulations, and just for the hell of it, let’s also suppose that we’re both in failed or failing marriages. Let’s further suppose that we are both still in love with at least the idea of each other, after two decades.
What would you do?[/QUOTE]
Oh boy, you have to first wonder why things never really progressed right the first time around?
Also you have to wonder are you actually in love, or the in love with the idea of this person or in love with the circumstances.
Are you in love with the possibility as an escape from a failing or failed marriage in love with something that puts you over the edge?
Or in love with the idea of getting out of a shitty marriage but not being alone.
One thing is for sure though.
Don’t waste your life being in a shitty marriage nothing good comes of that.
Its a waste of a lot of time, energy, and health.
You should do what is going to make you happy and staying with someone that doesn’t is silly.
All and all get properly single, then go a head and see where the other one can go, just go slow, let it be as it should be.
Make sure its not just some silly dream before doing something stupid like going off and getting married again.
[QUOTE=BKR;2889189]Take care of business at hand if you are in failing marriage. Fix it or get a divorce. Get your head straight then see if you want to get involved with her.
One thing at a time. Depending on the situation of the divorce, that could be easy or difficult.[/QUOTE]
This man speaks with great wisdom.
What would you do?
Hide behind a bush in the park and clandestinely squirt people with sugar water before they walk through the covered bridge that has a lot off beehives in it.
[QUOTE=submessenger;2889187]Worst thread I’ve ever started, for sure.
Let’s say, long ago, I was in love with a lady. Let’s say that she was in love with me, too. Let’s also suppose that we’ve kept in constant touch, despite travels and tribulations, and just for the hell of it, let’s also suppose that we’re both in failed or failing marriages. Let’s further suppose that we are both still in love with at least the idea of each other, after two decades.
What would you do?[/QUOTE]Go look up the term Emotional Affair, then read about the correlation to failing marriages, go get marriage counseling, make sure the marriage is dead, own my emotional attachment to my psychological affair partner and then follow BKR’s advice.
Do judo.
[QUOTE=submessenger;2889187]Worst thread I’ve ever started, for sure.
Let’s say, long ago, I was in love with a lady. Let’s say that she was in love with me, too. Let’s also suppose that we’ve kept in constant touch, despite travels and tribulations, and just for the hell of it, let’s also suppose that we’re both in failed or failing marriages. Let’s further suppose that we are both still in love with at least the idea of each other, after two decades.
What would you do?[/QUOTE]
Fuck that ho, ignore her when she calls, pat yourself on the back like a boss.
Move to the Southwest together to do something with turquoise.
So, to give a serious answer, I had a lesbian girlfriend decide all of a sudden that she was straight and needed me, after five years of separation or so. No, not that one. Or the other one. I had a few. Anyhow, she asked me to lunch and didn’t show up. When I called her, she invited me over to her place a distance down the road. She then tells me we can’t hook up because she’ll insist on wrecking my home so she could marry me instead. So, afterwards, she convinces my girl to hang out, tells her what happened, and then despite that, tells me I was wack and that she hates me. So don’t take these girls, that want to get you out of your marriage, seriously. They just want the D. All they want. Do no not trust these girls.
[QUOTE=submessenger;2889187]Worst thread I’ve ever started, for sure.
Let’s say, long ago, I was in love with a lady. Let’s say that she was in love with me, too. Let’s also suppose that we’ve kept in constant touch, despite travels and tribulations, and just for the hell of it, let’s also suppose that we’re both in failed or failing marriages. Let’s further suppose that we are both still in love with at least the idea of each other, after two decades.
What would you do?[/QUOTE]
To answer this accurately I am going to need measurements including cup size,and I need to knw what skills these ladies have for the talent section of the contest (sword swallowing,Jiu-Jitsu,yoga, etc.) .
Objective analysis, I like it:
One has red hair and blue eyes. The other, black and brown. Both about 5’6. Red has C-cups, probably 130 lbs. Black has D cups, probably around 160. Black is 8 years my junior, while Red is 2 years my senior. I find both to be very sexy.
As far as skills: Black is a highly competent money manager, with aspirations towards social services, and runs regularly. Red is a computer nerd for the military-industrial complex, that regularly engages in physical activities which would give most of us vertigo. Both are musically gifted, well read, and highly educated.
Both are feminists, though Red a little more so.
Both have BPD.
[QUOTE=submessenger;2895318]
Both have BPD.[/QUOTE]
Do they take their meds?
[QUOTE=submessenger;2895318]Objective analysis, I like it:
One has red hair and blue eyes. The other, black and brown. Both about 5’6. Red has C-cups, probably 130 lbs. Black has D cups, probably around 160. Black is 8 years my junior, while Red is 2 years my senior. I find both to be very sexy.
As far as skills: Black is a highly competent money manager, with aspirations towards social services, and runs regularly. Red is a computer nerd for the military-industrial complex, that regularly engages in physical activities which would give most of us vertigo. Both are musically gifted, well read, and highly educated.
Both are feminists, though Red a little more so.
Both have BPD.[/QUOTE]
Wait, BPD equals bipolar disorder ?
See if you can get both of them, that way, one is up, the other is down, or vice versa. Have two separate locked and padded rooms in the basement for when they are both down…
Seriously, don’t let the little head do your thinking.
[QUOTE=BKR;2895324]Wait, BPD equals bipolar disorder ?
See if you can get both of them, that way, one is up, the other is down, or vice versa. Have two separate locked and padded rooms in the basement for when they are both down…
Seriously, don’t let the little head do your thinking.[/QUOTE]
Sex is important. But it’s not the only consideration, for sure.
I’m not a doctor, but BPD = Borderline Personality Disorder. Anxiety, mood swings, etc. Not quite the same as Bipolar (manic depression, for us old guys), though they can manifest in similar ways.
[QUOTE=submessenger;2895328]Sex is important. But it’s not the only consideration, for sure.
I’m not a doctor, but BPD = Borderline Personality Disorder. Anxiety, mood swings, etc. Not quite the same as Bipolar (manic depression, for us old guys), though they can manifest in similar ways.[/QUOTE]
In either case, proceed with caution would be my advice. Now that I know what you meant by BPD, I guess it depends on your tolerance for drama, which depends on just how far along that spectrum they are.
Plus, are you divorced yet ?
[QUOTE=BKR;2895329]In either case, proceed with caution would be my advice. Now that I know what you meant by BPD, I guess it depends on your tolerance for drama, which depends on just how far along that spectrum they are.
Plus, are you divorced yet ?[/QUOTE]
No, we have talked about it a few times, but neither of us is really looking for that outcome. We did counseling, a while back, too.
[QUOTE=BigJim520;2895323]Do they take their meds?[/QUOTE]
Both are medicated.
[QUOTE=submessenger;2895330]No, we have talked about it a few times, but neither of us is really looking for that outcome. We did counseling, a while back, too.[/QUOTE]
I recommend you ride out your current contract. If it happens that a split is needed I would recommend free agency to get idea of your market value oppose to just signing with the first team that’s willing to give you a try out.