[QUOTE=Raycetpfl;2895339]I recommend you ride out your current contract. If it happens that a split is needed I would recommend free agency to get idea of your market value oppose to just signing with the first team that’s willing to give you a try out.[/QUOTE]
I get where you’re coming from. I was kind of thinking it more like I turned down the Yankees, for a lifetime contract with the Rays, but the Yankees still want me, and may be amenable to a better offer.
All I know is a bunch of random strangers on the internet really don’t know what is best for you.
We certainly don’t know where you are at in your head space, where your wife is at, where the other girl is at.
We have no magic to see what the future will hold in what ever direction you go.
I personally would just plow them both at the same time but hey that is me…
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Both have BPD.[/QUOTE]
Good luck and enjoy the ride in any event!
[QUOTE=submessenger;2895330]No, we have talked about it a few times, but neither of us is really looking for that outcome. We did counseling, a while back, too.[/QUOTE]
So, how does your current wife feel about these two ? I she willing to take on a “sister-wife”?
[QUOTE=Raycetpfl;2895339]I recommend you ride out your current contract. If it happens that a split is needed I would recommend free agency to get idea of your market value oppose to just signing with the first team that’s willing to give you a try out.[/QUOTE]
Smartest thing you have ever written here, Rayce.
[QUOTE=BKR;2895459]So, how does your current wife feel about these two ? I she willing to take on a “sister-wife”?[/QUOTE]
They have actually spoken via telephone, which made me squirm. They know about each other, but don’t know each other. Despite (or, perhaps, because of) similarities, I don’t think they would get along, outside of pleasantries.
[QUOTE=submessenger;2895467]They have actually spoken via telephone, which made me squirm. They know about each other, but don’t know each other. Despite (or, perhaps, because of) similarities, I don’t think they would get along, outside of pleasantries.[/QUOTE]
You are apparently a glutton for punishment, however, carry on…
[QUOTE=submessenger;2895467]They have actually spoken via telephone, which made me squirm. They know about each other, but don’t know each other. Despite (or, perhaps, because of) similarities, I don’t think they would get along, outside of pleasantries.[/QUOTE]
Give the three way a shot.
[QUOTE=submessenger;2895467]They have actually spoken via telephone, which made me squirm. They know about each other, but don’t know each other. Despite (or, perhaps, because of) similarities, I don’t think they would get along, outside of pleasantries.[/QUOTE]
All I am going to say here is start protecting your assets and how many children under 18 do you have?
[QUOTE=goodlun;2895518]All I am going to say here is start protecting your assets and how many children under 18 do you have?[/QUOTE]
Or maybe, “do you live in a community property state”?
[QUOTE=Permalost;2895133]Move to the Southwest together to do something with turquoise.[/QUOTE]
I would do everything to fullfill this love.