Ouch. If it had said “looking forwards to swallowing your mess” etc, then maybe she’s only after the sexual gratification… but that sounds sort of sweet… and based on emotion.
Sounds like she’s moving on. Sorry.
Thank you everybody. Probably shouldn’t have posted that but I appreciate taking the time to share your thoughts/insight on this.
Make a decision. Fight for her or call it a day.
It sounds like you are in a bad place in your head my friend. My advice? Do something to get out of there.
Fight for her???
Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeell no!!!
If the story is true, that woman not only would wake up happily in the other dude’s arm, but she’s going to have her guard stacked, legs up in the air like fucking rockets to the moon, to side control, turtle, tea-bagged and spunk all over her face (and probably into her digestive system) over and over while she moans the new dude’s name, not even caring a flying fuck about the tard sap that’s still thinking “I’d be ok if she blows another guy’ dick until it sings like a Scottish bagpipe so long as she feels something, anything for me.”
The hell with that crap.
Besides, I don’t believe MrJ is the type who would truly get over that were the two of these “lovebirds” decided to try one more time. He says he’d be ok, but only because he’s rationalizing the situation, and because he’s doormat.
This is a perfect recipe for pent up resentment that will blow up in the future. I’ve seen this happened several times, it’s not even funny. A lot of people fall for this trap. MrJ, don’t be one of them.
MrJ, mark my words. Try work this out, and you’ll suffer and turn you into a bitch… and you’ll still be a doormat. Grow a pair and walk away. Walk away, start anew, get a hooker, go on dates, temporarily become a workaholic/gym-aholic, whatever to get you out that and her and then look for another one.
Grow. A. Pair. Walk. Away.
Joke Response: To quote Tom Arnold in True Lies, “C’mon Harry, ditch the bitch!”
Serious Response Number 1: I think you’ve got a cuckholding fetish and you’re posting here. Is it difficult typing with only one hand? No I’m not winding you up. I’m fucking serious.
Serious Response Number 2: If you’re not cool with this then get rid of her. I don’t know how long you guys have been married but your wife is trying to have her cake and eat it too. She obviously gets something out of the relationship. In my opinion its beyond saving. Get rid of her.
On another note, the problem here isn’t really your wife its you. You’re the only one that you have any real control over in this situation. If your wife wants to fuck around on you, she’s gonna. Her being “up front” about it is a thin veil of bullshit to make her, and supposedly you, feel better. You really need to work on yourself. Because if you don’t you’re just gonna end up in this situation again.
Also, her explanations: “I’m gonna sleep over at his house on the couch?” Are you kidding? Is she kidding? Is somebody kidding? Fuck that. Reign this broad in. She either thinks you’re stupid or a total pussy or both. She’s not even bothering to concoct a plausible lie. If you’re not insulted, I am, on your behalf. She sucks.
Or actually, just cut her loose.
Oh, and I’ve been in a loveless, stupid and emotional fucked marriage. I didn’t cheat on her no matter how miserable I was. I left her. So I know what I’m talking about.
El Macho, get out of my head…
I agree with everything JP has said except the above. The problem is your wife. Throw that bitch out the door. If she is not getting what she wants from the marriage, she’s supposed to talk to you, like a reasonable person who once loved you would. Cheating is bullshit. Cheating is what fucking cowards do because they don’t respect the person they are with enough to say “something’s up” or “this isn’t working anymore”. Fuck that. That bitch is dishonorable, and she needs to go through the fucking door.
Fuck fighting for her. She is not worth it. She’s trash. Leave her to fuck whoever she wants, surgically separate her from yourself, and cauterize the wound via whatever coping mechanism you want to employ (El Macho mentioned a few). Whatever you do, don’t fuck your life up by allowing that bitch in it.
Good God JP! When The Question is even right about something, you need to adjust your life a little. Grow a pair or stand in the loser line.
Are there any kids from this marriage?
Is there a house to split up?
Ahhh, Sam’s offering to represent Mr J for the usual fee: the FIRSTBORN!!!
Sorry Sochin, I have no interest in running a day care center. Unless of course it was to take care of my future children with fes fsa and lily.
Then he isnt a friend, hes a lover. Whoop his ass. If she isnt worth fighting for then divorce her
Then you caught them doing something.
Why is it lost? Was it there to begin with?
Yet you sit by and whine about it? Are you still fucking her? If so, does she use protection when she is banging her boyfriend? Is he banging another woman besides your wife, or even still, another dude?
Here is where I call troll. If you arent then you are a faggot who wishes your wifes new boyfriend would fuck you too. Open a Hotmail account and let him know.
troll. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz not even a good one. However, if your wife is this big of a slut then please post pictures of her nude, and her Hotmail account and password so we can read it too.
Shit…I could have gotten off easy. He got to bang MOM34 for my legal representation. Now every time I eat her out I taste bratwurst.
clinton voice I did not have sex with that woman!
hey, not saying that Mom34 isn’t cute but I’ve saving myself for Lily. Its gonna be a long wait.
We should start a fund. The only stipulation being that it must all be on video. (blur out yourself in the sex part ok?)
The problem is his too. If he weren’t such a blind doormat, he would have dropped and red lights would have gone off the first time she said ‘I’m sleeping in the couch’.
Man, that dude is blind.
Did you read my whole post?
Nobody who is an adult is in a situation entirely because of somebody else. You still make choices that affect your life, whether you were aware of it or not. So anytime you’re involved in something fucked up you have to accept responsibility for your end of the bullshit.
He’s in a marriage in which the spark, and likely a lot of the love, has vanished. Why is he there? Because he chooses to stay there.
Its a total pussy move to put all the blame on the other half of a situation you share. He’s gotta own part of this. Thats called having “a pair.”
In addition, and I think I clarified this in my post, I was referring to his future relationships. If he doesn’t change some things about himself, he’s gonna either stay in this situation or acquire himself a new one thats very similar to the current one.
Also, as much as The Question masquerades as a twat on the internet, he isn’t actually one in real life.
He should get pictures of her cheating and curb her with as little as possible, if you ask me.
Gosh, it certainly is a good thing all you he-men are here to hand out competent relationship advice.