Lets just say that following a woman down the street at midnight, as she gets some fresh air, makes people think YOU are making her walk, not that She wanted to be Leaving the car while it was going 80km/h.
I used to walk my dogs like that…just drive down the road until they tire, however one day this guy pulled over and asked “If you don’t want him- how much?” I was scared of reliving that with this women. In case you think I was an insensitive ass, I had my flashers on.
[quote=KO’d N DOA;2265875]In case you think I was an insensitive ass, I had my flashers on.[/quote]Quite the opposite, I was contrasting what an insensitive ass COULD do.
Woman: Stop the car, I want out.
Ass: (Stops car)
Woman: (Gets out)
Ass: (Drives off, stops at the first diner for a bite to eat. Later complains that the woman took too long to walk there. Questions her logic why she wanted to get out of the car when he was driving: did she want him to wait for her? Why should he wait for her? If she mentions she’s hungry, he mentions that if she stayed in the car, she would have eaten by now.)
Alternative: He goes home (or to a movie), ignoring phone calls.
Heh, me and my ex, in uni many moons ago used to fight rather viciously. We would end up in the street screaming abuse at each other. I nearly got my ass reamed by concerned passers by many times. Eventually it became a running gag with us and we’d talk like to each other sometimes for laughs. So picture the following when we vacationing in Greece and went for dinner one night…
Me: “I wonder what their house wine is?”
Her “You’re such a fucking moron. Greeks don’t drink wine, they drink ouzo.”
Me : “shut your fucking mouth, whore! How dare you talk to me, a man, like that!”
Her:" Fuck you dickless lady boy…"
Me: “Bitch! How fucking…GLURK”
As some massive fucking Greek dude grabs me by the throat from behind and his girlfriend tries to hustle her away saying “it’s OK, we’ll get you somewhere safe, he can’t talk to you like that…”
Women are more emotional is bullshit.
Watch your average guy when his sports team is losing and tell me men aren’t emotional. Watch a guy become frothing at the mouth angry because someone cut them off in traffic, and tell me men have great emotional control.
HUMANS are irrational and emotional, and women in the west are SOCIALIZED to believe that they have the right or something to act like retarded lunatics because they’re special little flowers that everyone else must cow tow around.
Women are like that because they are TAUGHT to be like that. I was raised with an absence of gender and 90% of my reactions and likes and dislikes are what are considered “male traits” in our society.
[quote=Humanzee;2265778]I share your pain brother…
The problem for me usually arrives with the peak flow of hormones. I think somebody brought this up: if it happens every month, why can’t they be prepared for it? I’m hoping a womanz can answer this for us.
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Oh, this is bullshit, that’s why women don’t “prepare” for it. No society on the planet but ours has noted this. Women get hormone crazed when PREGNANT, yes. There is a vanishingly small precentage of women who do have crazy extreme hormone swings at mensturation, and that is diagnosable and treatable.
For the rest of the lunatics, is just a social acceptable excuse to abuse people. It’s so deeply ingrained, I think it’s like mass hysteria now, and some women actually do feel some kind of psychological change.
For the record, my own experience is that I have very, very extreme menses (before birth control I literally couldn’t walk or eat for a day or two at the beginning and was life threateningly anemic from blood loss) so I’m not one of the “lucky” ones.
It’s pure crap, and should not be tolerated.
Something old guys keep telling me whenever a girl has me feelling down over some irrational bullshit:
“They are all crazy, you just have to find one with crazy you can handle…”
I honestly don’t think this is exclusive to women, but there it is…
Personally, I try to turn the wacky into angry sex. Best way to end an argument IMO, if it can be pulled off that is…
I second JKDs sentiment actually. PEOPLE ARE CRAZY. All of them. The secret is to find a girl who is crazy in the same way you are, or at least a compatible way. Looking for a girl/guy who isn’t crazy is just a recipe for disaster and misery.
Can’t any of you go through a breakup without it resulting in this board turning into even more of a locker room support group full of stupid generalizations than it already is?
I’ve been married for thirty eight years and I don’t want to break up. You are just going to have to find some other pawn for your evil plan.
Yeah really, there should be a fucking care bear hand holding forum so LLL doesn’t get filled with this sad bullshit.
lolfag
My $0.02:
JKD is right, it’s a learned trait that isn’t easily overcome. I don’t buy the, “It’s that time of the month” nonsense, because I’ve only dated one person that was psycho during that point…but she was psycho all year round to boot.
By the way, what you don’t say is just as important as what you do say. In fact, it may be more important. Non-verbal communication makes up the majority of how we communicate with others.
Why not? I mean, it goes hand-in-hand with the theme…
Current girlfriend gets antsy as hell a week-10 days before. Sleeps and cries during, and is “recovering” for a week after.
I pointed out that this pretty means he whole month is now defined, and maybe it is little to do with her TotM, and more to do with something else like Seasonal Affective Disorder or mild depression since she left home. She agreed though, and we’ve been working some stuff out. It’s been pretty cool and has helped us communicate better.
Too gay?
[quote=tideliar;2266904]Current girlfriend gets antsy as hell a week-10 days before. Sleeps and cries during, and is “recovering” for a week after.
I pointed out that this pretty means he whole month is now defined, and maybe it is little to do with her TotM, and more to do with something else like Seasonal Affective Disorder or mild depression since she left home. She agreed though, and we’ve been working some stuff out. It’s been pretty cool and has helped us communicate better.
Too gay?[/quote]
So you’re a relationship scientist? I see a hypothesis, but what about the rest of the scientific method?
Even if the behaviors she stated were normal, that would not exscuse them.
Also, I agree with JKDChick. The number one type of woman I see that that prominently displays these behaviors are the pretty ones who received special treatment from day one and never learned that it takes more than looks to get through life. It’s all bullshit entitlement.
[quote=JKDChick;2266004]Women are more emotional is bullshit.
Watch your average guy when his sports team is losing and tell me men aren’t emotional. Watch a guy become frothing at the mouth angry because someone cut them off in traffic, and tell me men have great emotional control.
HUMANS are irrational and emotional, and women in the west are SOCIALIZED to believe that they have the right or something to act like retarded lunatics because they’re special little flowers that everyone else must cow tow around.
Women are like that because they are TAUGHT to be like that. I was raised with an absence of gender and 90% of my reactions and likes and dislikes are what are considered “male traits” in our society.[/quote]
I’d tend to agree… I think men are at least as emotional.
I’m an emotional guy sometimes… (sniff)
If only sheep could cook.
What is it with you and small animals?
Stoicism, IMO, is a virtue regardless of gender…
When your spouse or significant other isn’t feeling well, tell her that, and add
“Compassion is for pussies”
Just never get sick or injured then.