I’ve noticed that a lot of people on this forum talk about how they perform sexual intercourse with females and decided that since I haven’t done so since I was in college I should ask here for specific advice.
I think that I don’t know what social procedures I’m supposed to undertake if I would like to have sex with a particular female. The times in my life when I did have sex or make out with a female it was always the female coming on pretty strongly to me. Recently, I have been observing how during social gatherings or events sometimes pairs of males and females will somehow self-select and seperate themselves from the group. I have also observed at least one male draping an arm over a female who shook it off thus sending a clear rejection signal. These observations have lead me to believe that perhaps there are certain social procedures a person would undertake in order to convince a female to engage in sexual activity. I would like to ask about these social procedures here in Liquor, Loot, and Ladies, since most people here talk as if they are quite experienced in such matters.
So, for example, let’s say that I am in a social setting and there are some females, perhaps at a neighborhood bar. If I take it upon myself to want to do something sexual with one of the females, what is the socially correct way to communicate this with the female?
I’m probably getting ahead of myself but the next question relates to actual sexual acts. I’ve recently had the priveledge of discussing sexual acts with females with a skinny sex addicted thirty year old. I’ve got some observations coming off of this conversation but would like some clarification or additional perspective.
1.) It appears that anal sex is difficult to induce outside of a porn studio. My friend told me that he has only succeeded in initiating anal sex with females who felt very comfortable and then only after a months-long process of simultaneous oral sex and anal finger penetration which would slowly and subtly be upgraded to actual sodomy. Is this correct? And if so, is does it have any relevance to how people normally engage in sexual relations?
2.) It seems that oral sex on females is an important part of modern sexual activity. However, there seemed to be a little bit of a disconnect with my friend’s attitudes towards cunnilingus and his attitudes towards sanitation. He told me that if a female’s vulva were extremely malodorous that he would not perform oral sex on the female or likewise if her anus had a palpable fecal smell. I pointed out to him that regardless of whether or not any ordors are present during the act of cunnilingus the male’s nose would probably hit the female’s urethrea and that in terms of health and sanitation the male would probably have bacteria-rich urine residue smeared all over his face from the activity. He replied that he can be understanding about urine because females cannot help passing urine but that poor general sanitation, such as not wiping well and leaving some degree of fecal residue, was unacceptable. But to me this reply seemed to be more socially constructed rather than really medically or scientifically meticulous. So my question to you all is what sorts of parameters and conditions you would apply to performing oral sex on a female. Do you differentiate between the different flavors you may encounter and enjoy them, or do you try to ignore them as unpleasant flavors?
I look forward to hearing your insights on these matters. Thanks very much for your patience and kindness and your help.