So I’ve noticed something which is that JKDChick seems to be constantly single. (Please correct me if I’m wrong). It seems like it was a year ago or more we were talking about this same topic. So here’s a thread to try to get her a guy.
So some tips for JKDChick … go to the bars on nights that are NOT ladies night. Ladies night there are too many women.
Mingle with the guys. It helps if you bring a wing-woman to boost your confidence. Also, a single woman alone at a bar is kindof pathetic. Don’t bring a whole bunch of women and hang out with them in a booth or table or something because it’s too hard for guys. Even if they go over to talk to you, if you’re one of the crowd it’s too hard to them to single you out to get your number.
Go with one other chick, or 2, but mingle – go to the bar area. Dress in something sexy and make yourself up. Guys don’t like shemales. Flirt … you have to flirt.
That’s about it. If you can’t get a guy like that, I don’t know what the heck’s wrong with you. You might ask a male acquaintance or something for suggestions.
If you really want to get a guy, you might consider moonlighting as a bartender or a waitress or something. Guaranteed you’ll get hit on a lot.
Okay, so let’s assume that you’re not exactly the hottie that every man is looking for. Here’s a beginner/intermediate bar technique to get you laid.
Attractive friend strategy. This one requires that you find an attractive wing-woman that the guys always hit on. All you have to do is bring her along and every guy is drooling, right? Well, most guys will travel in twos, so what you do here is diss all the single guys, and hone in on the guy with the wingman. Basically, the tactic here is you make it clear that they’re not sleeping/going outwith your friend, unless they find some guy to go out with YOU. Now what guy is going to turn down an easy date/lay? Hardly anyone, right?
So once the guy is honing on your friend, you just need to talk to and give attention to the guy’s wingman, and you’re set. If he’s too stupid, you might have to show some initiative and talk to him, use suggestive language, etc. If your friend gives her guy her number, or he asks, make sure you get his friend’s number at the same time. If your friend leaves the bar with the guy, make sure you leave the bar with her, etc. Basically just force yourself along for the ride if the wingman doesn’t know his job.
So you’re at a party, and you’re a gal, and you like some guy, and he’s not giving you much attention?
Get him drunk. All it takes is getting him drunk. There’s an old saying “a 2 at 10 is a 10 at 2”. What this means is basically, that measuring women on a scale from 1-10, a 10 being most attractive and a 1 being the least attractive, that a 2 at 10:00pm is a 10 at 2:00am. Meaning that once the guy’s drunk, as a woman you’re going to be a lot more attractive to him once he’s drunk.
So get him drunk. Flirt with him, get him drunk, make yourself available. What guy is going to turn down an available woman when he’s drunk? Not many guys, right? So make yourself available.
If he’s still not going for it, just jump on him. Yes, that’s right. When he’s drunk and sitting on a chair or couch or something, just go for it and start kissing him and stuff. What guy’s going to push off a woman like that? And if he does, so what … on to the next guy. Your chances of getting him to take you home or go to your place just went up about 10x with that move.
Anyway, if she wants to get a guy, she should get one, right? I have no idea why it’s not working for her, so I’m throwing out these techniques that I’ve known women have used. Very standard techniques for catching guys. I’ve known some women that weren’t so attractive who had NO PROBLEM getting guys using these same methods. And if she is attractive she should have no problem with them, either.
I’m guessing she’s one of these women who doesn’t make herself up or dress all sexy (she’s said as much herself), or act feminine, so she’s definitely going to have a harder time getting a guy like that.