So I got this Facebook video with a skit about rolling with woman.
And apparently it is nuanced.
Shocker I know.
But the comments. Fucking good lord.
So I got this Facebook video with a skit about rolling with woman.
And apparently it is nuanced.
Shocker I know.
But the comments. Fucking good lord.
Why do I have to make her feel that I was thankful I was rolling with her?
I’ll look at the other comments later.
Yeah. There seems to be a lot of that.
Mabye when guys are super weird around women. It makes it super weird to be around women.
Gym etiquette.
Fist bump, thanks for the roll. I was impressed with that good thing you did. So on and so forth.
Makes sense.
Manners maketh man.
@DCS I almost pissed myself laughing so hard.
Is it really that hard to act normal around women? I do the fist bump thing with women because I do it with everyone else.
There is actually an interesting conversation to be had linked to mentorship, men, male spaces, role models, etc. although i think it’s outside the scope of this discussion.
I’ve trained with many women through the years, never had any issues, however, if i were to do BJJ now, there is no way my wife would be happy with me rolling with women in class. I also know there is no successful way i could make that argument to her. I know that’s strictly not what’s being discussed here, but that would be my primary issue if i’m honest. Something like boxing would be okay, but full mount on the ground would be an argument. lol.
Jeez what a bunch of weirdos , grappling with women, grappling with a gay guy its not sexual, if somebody gets on mat to roll then they roll according to the international rules of the matt , if you touch their tiddies during the roll because they are her chest its just what it is no difference to when somebody goes north south and you have their balls in your face its not sexual its rolling.
If they are on the mat then they know this its that simple.
Male or female I will always adjust how I roll depending on the experience and strength of the opponent.
Good grief its 2025 some guys have got issues .
I blame Andrew Tate
That side (people that support what he says) seems to have really kicked up in gear. Not feeling great about the conversations i’m seeing online these days.
It all started with Kevin Samuels who was a legit relationship and style coach but allot of pretenders like Tate and Pearly things and goodness knows how many others took him as their source material and then when he died morphed into the retarded bullshit we have today.
Just seams like podcast after podcast of men bullying low IQ or women of a particular ilk for likes and follows (money essentially).
Sometimes they do make some valid points but they are often the wrong people to make those points and they make them in the wrong way and certainly not in the interest of helping anyone other than themselves make more money.
If toxic masculinity was not a thing 10yrs ago then they have certainly created it .
That said is it really toxic masculinity or is that just another label for toxic stupidity?
Raise your hand if you’ve actually grappled or thrown down, in person, with a member of this website
I’ll go first
Ok, so that’s 2 of us.
Are you spelling their name wrong?
I know a little Celtic.
I have no idea how to spell that.,