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How fucking sad am I right now.

been with this girl a year and a half. gorgeous thing, funny, smart, beautiful, all that shit. We got along so well, just clicked from day one. After a year, we had a breakup. only lasted a few days before she came crawling back, begging for a second shot, that she had made a mistake. I took her back but my trust in her was pretty shaken.

Anyway over the last 2 months it had become quite shaky again, she was finishing her dissertation and while I was doing my best to support her it was a lot of strain. on the day she actually handed it in we had an arguement, the next day in the heat of the moment i told her it was over, then almost immediately said i was sorry, that i didnt mean it. she said ok but she needed some time to think. week goes by, i get in contact with her again. we hang out a lot for a couple of days before she goes off to a navy training fortnight thing (shes in the reserves) where she says she will think about everything thats happened and tell me when she gets back. Now she left on the friday, and on the wednesday i saw her running from the uni gym, in her gym gear etc, with some guy. she saw me and said she would explain later as they ran off. My immediate thought was that she was seeing the guy.

I talked to her the next day and she said that he was a PTI instructor that the navy sent out, that she had a swimming test that she hadnt done that needed to be done that day. she seemed genuine so i believed her, and she went off on her navy trip.

2 weeks later she comes back, and tells me she thinks we should just be friends. to be honest I kind of expected it, even though i didnt want it. We didn’t talk much over the next few days, she seemed to be very busy, supposedly with her navy and uni stuff.

Last night she came round to grab some of her stuff, and to talk to me about her training and everything. we got along fine, i felt a little emotional but we just talked for hours about our relationship, what things worked and what didnt etc. by the end i felt much better, right up until she hit me with this-

The guy she was running with wasn’t a PTI instructor, he was a guy from uni and they were running to go to a concert. she had also had a lunchdate with him. this was literally days after we had “broken up” (despite that being a heat of the moment backlash to something she had said, and was meaningless). she had lied, convincingly, to my face about what she had been doing that day. Whether or not she knew the guy before we had our arguement i have no idea. But what it tells me is that she must have been fucking relieved when i told her i didnt want to see her. and that for those weeks afterwards she was “trying out” this new guy, but keeping me on the leash in case it fell through. when she came back and it was still on with this guy she had obviously decided he was the new thing and had spent the days before she came to get her stuff with this guy.

What makes it a little sweeter for me though is that when she came round yesterday, she was nervous and fidgety and seemed upset. i figured it was just because of the situation. after i told her to get the fuck out of my apartment, she sent me a txt telling me that earlier in the day the guy had told her that because she hadnt put out yet, he was fucking someone else, and they broke up. So not only had she left me for the kind of asshole that she had hated herself for dating before, she let me off my “leash” just a few days too early. hahaha. i hope she continues dating fucking assholes who use her and leave her, because im safe in the knowledge that i treated her with love, the same way i would treat any girl i was serious about, and one day ill stumble upon a girl who is the same way.

morale of this story- even the most seemingly amazing girl can be a backstabbing whore.

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ouch brother thats rough. I send you a metaphorical beer of your choice.

3

I hear you man, been there done that, got the Tshirt. Just remember, there is planty of fish in the sea.

4

Let her know that you will continue dating her until you can find someone better.

5

Oh snap!

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Sorry to hear this Alex, but it seems like you could tell the other shoe was dropping for some time now and seemed as if you were preparing yourself for it.

You are a stronger man now then you were a year and a half ago. Don’t lose that strength when the next woman comes around.

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im pretty comfortable in the knowledge that some time from now, maybe after shes been used by a few other assholes, she will look back and think “what the fuck did i do that for”

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the thing is, if she had TOLD me after we had broken up, after we hadnt talked for a week, that she was going to go on a date with someone- i probably wouldnt have been so upset about it. its the fact that she lied right to my face about it, tried to cover the whole thing up, that upset me the most.

and yeah i can admit i made some mistakes in this relationship. but im definitely better now than i was. and on the plus side, i have a date lined up for next week and ive been chatting to a hot girl who does kickboxing as well, might go for a drink with her on thursday… :wink:

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That sucks, bro.

Unfortunately, it seems like she’s still in line for a few classes at the school of hard knocks. Some women drive a Mercedes so long that they begin to think all cars are as well made…

…and then the piece of shit Chevy breaks down in the middle of winter during a snow storm, forcing you to walk seventeen miles in knee deep snow while wearing nothing more than a thong and a tank top, all the while your pet monkey has a nasty rash that he keeps scratching, and your pet python decided to swallow someone’s child.

Wait, what were we talking about?

10

Sorry to hear that Alex but she does come off as being very sneaky and coldly calculating. You’re better off. I went with a girl that was so cold blooded if you kissed her hard you got an ice cream headache.

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All you can really do is learn from it and get back out there.

Don’t become a douche though.

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That is acutally not that easy to do after something like this.

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yeah i know. i know that im the kind of guy who leaves himself open to being hurt, i dont have it in me to be an asshole when it comes to relationships. but i also know that it means when i find a girl who is actually emotionally mature (im sure they exist somewhere… right?) then it will be perfect.

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Sometimes I wonder why - when things are going all well enough for a guy, that you get blindslided like that. It must be the “drama gene” kicking in. Perfect just isn’t good enough, it has to be ‘fixed’.

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Yeah people lie , and yes contrary to opinion sometimes women are people too . They are not just demonic , manipulative , self centered , evil parasites bent on spreading distrust and stealing your life force . They have moments of humanity in between revealing their true nature .

Train hard and funnel some of the hurt and anger into head kicks .

(backfistmonkey)

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when i talked to her last night she almost broke down in tears because she didnt know what she wanted in her life. i felt bad for her. its a shame, i think maybe if she had more life experience- if we had met a few years on- it could have worked out. but i think like most young girls, she needs to learn the hard way that most guys are cold pricks that dont give a fuck.

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She lied because she is weak and was eating her cake and having it, too.

She had no reason to be honest and truthful and was waiting to see which would be the best fit.

If it wasn’t now, it would have been some time and if it wasn’t him, it would have been another guy.

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Women are never satisfied. Ever. Its evolution. The one that doesn’t bitch when her caveman hubby brings home a rabbit instead of a deer starves to death over the winter. The one who pisses and moans until he goes out to hunt again, then sneaks into another cave and gives it up for some of that guys sabertooth tiger meat, her genes go on to the next generation. You want to fight a couple of hundred years of that cause and effect? Even when you find a “good one” she won’t be satisfied with anything, the best you can hope for ius that they are up front about it.

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Kempo made TEM say that , but it works here too I think .

People do stupid , hurtful things , it is just part of it and it sucks which is sometimes good .

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I don’t mean to rain on the understanding parade here, but I’m gonna do it anyway.

Yes people are human. Yes women are people. Yes people lie.

But she’s upset because there were negative effects to her actions and these effects impacted her directly.

That’s why she’s upset. Because this whole thing blew up in her face. It’s not because she suddenly had some epiphany that what she did was hurtful or wrong.

Most people are like this.

Hell I’m like this.

Now you can all go back to being understanding, but let’s all be clear about what’s going on here.