I’m 21 years old, I’m pretty good with the ladies, get laid a lot. But I always feel bad when hitting on them, and they are buying into my crap. I feel like sure I’m going to bang this bitch for an average of 3 weeks and then it will go to crap since it’s a scam. It’s all a scam this “game” etc etc. People say there is no such thing as true love, maybe they’re right after all. But I feel love and sadness thinking about all those women I was shagging for a few weeks and then lost in crapstorms. Also I have a girlfriend since 3 years and have been cheating on her all the time. Just because she lives far away and doesn’t come and sex me enough. Then I look for random women for sex but I always end up missing them with some sort of feeling of loss when it’s all said and done. So at the moment I’m at home being sad about all those bitches. Including the one I met last week and will soon start shagging if all goes to plan. Life is pretty weird guys. It’s fucked up. The punishment part perhaps of drinking and womanizing
…sooo…what are you looking for here? Answers? Witty retorts about how “love is a funny thing”?
Just wondering if other people get this shit too, because my buddies hardly get laid in the first place and feel like I’m laughing in their face when asking them about this.
You feel bad because you act like a dick, it’s called ‘guilt’. Stop acting like a dick. Problem solved.
Clarify for me here.
Your issue is that getting laid doesnt intrinsically bring you longterm happiness, and you want to know why?
Dude, if you don’t find something you’re doing fulfilling, why are you doing it? If you do find it, for the most part, fulfilling, what part of it is bothering you?
Vids or it never happened.
[quote=Suprore;2273169]Clarify for me here.
Your issue is that getting laid doesnt intrinsically bring you longterm happiness, and you want to know why?
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I’m not sure it’s pretty weird. The feeling that since there are so many beautiful women you end up trying to shag all of them, but they are all nice but you have to drop them to be able to keep up with all the other women you still have to shag. But then you want to go back to those you already shagged because it was a glorious time and shit. Like really weird shit
have you considered weighing the consequences of your choices, and trying to decide what you want most (emotional connection with nice, beautiful women, or keeping up with all of the other women you want to shag, or being loyal to your girlfriend,), instead of impulsively committing yourself to whatever’s in front of you at the moment and then apparently regretting all of your decisions?
i’m not about to get in here and tell you what’s moral and what isn’t and what is a good use of your time and what isnt, but it’s obvious you have some personal feelings about these things, or else you wouldnt feel guilt or regret after your choices. Instead of asking some dudes online maybe you should think about what you really want, and why you feel the way you do.
Something here screams “troll-job.”
Anyway. I’ve been involved in a handful of poly amorous and open relationships. My best advice is to be honest and upfront with those you involve yourself with. You won’t feel like a dirtbag, because if they aren’t interested…they won’t get involved. If they are interested and understand the terms of the “relationship,” then there’s no problem.
That being said, I personally detest people that sneak around on others. You need to be honest with your girlfriend as well…or your primary, or alpha…whatever you call her.
You feel unsatisfied and unhappy sleeping with all those women because you are actually gay.
…qft
Hey everyone, I need help.
I routinely place my genitals in a vise and it ends up hurting every time. I know that vises are for holding stuff you’re working on, but every time I’m at the tool store, I just have to buy a new vise to feel satisfied. But then I get it home and place my genitals in it and just like every other time, it hurts.
What should I do?
[quote=Adam Alexander;2273259]Hey everyone, I need help.
I routinely place my genitals in a vise and it ends up hurting every time. I know that vises are for holding stuff you’re working on, but every time I’m at the tool store, I just have to buy a new vise to feel satisfied. But then I get it home and place my genitals in it and just like every other time, it hurts.
What should I do?[/quote]
You are obviously gay…go fuck men
See now, that sort of response isn’t going to help my sarcastic analogy across the plate.
But it furthers my sarcastic agenda
How does that work? I mean, is your sarcastic agenda made up of stuff like “Be nice to Bullshido philosophers” and you’re like “Oh yeah, I have to talk smack to that moron?” Or do you mean “agenda” sarcastically, as in “it fits my, sarcastically speaking, jackelope, agenda?”
I’m sincerely interested. 
PS: I gave you herpes.
I feel your pain. Everytime I kick a homeless guy, I go home and regret it.
Quit using the internet as a therapist. I’m directing this to all the emo bitches that shit up LLL with this garbage. An internet forum is not a place to deal with problems as serious as your relationships and emotional well being. It’s that simple.
“But the people on the internet are SO smart! They might have the answer to my problem!”
You’re right, there are a lot of smart people on this forum. But they are limited by the fact that their only contact with you is through posts on a forum dedicated to martial arts. You just can’t get the full story about what is wrong with your social life through this medium.
[quote=Santa Kill Aid;2273416]Quit using the internet as a therapist. I’m directing this to all the emo bitches that shit up LLL with this garbage. An internet forum is not a place to deal with problems as serious as your relationships and emotional well being. It’s that simple.
“But the people on the internet are SO smart! They might have the answer to my problem!”
You’re right, there are a lot of smart people on this forum. But they are limited by the fact that their only contact with you is through posts on a forum dedicated to martial arts. You just can’t get the full story about what is wrong with your social life through this medium.[/quote]
You’re just upset that nobody wanted to help you with your idea for a Loot, Liquor and Laddies thread.