You should do that anyway. However, you don’t need to record or post it. If you DO feel the need to post it, please edit yourself out. Thanku.
Women are attracted to bad boys.
After they have sex with the bikers and the ballers, then they go and marry someone they can control which falls under your definition of “communicate”.
If it comes down to choosing between Mr. “communication” or Billy Baddie at a bar for instance, well guess which one she will go home with and probably give up the goods to?
Uh huh.
Dude, just work on getting your life together for now…
Women are more attracted to a guy that has his life together than a guy that has a few tricks he got from a martial arts forum up his sleeve.
Get some hobbies, don’t act all needy in front of her, and work on your confidence.
Wow, someone who is more socially awkward than I used to be. Here’s some advice.
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Never heed advice about women from a teenager.
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Watch the movie The Tao of Steve. I know someone like him in real life, an overweight slacker who has to fend off the young hotties with a stick. I’m not kidding, which brings us to-
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Women can smell desperation in a man from a mile away. How do confidence? First, try to relax, be yourself. Simply stated, but oh so hard for the socially challenged to actually accomplish. Do it or fail at having the chance to procreate.
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Your quote is almost correct. More than a communicator, women want someone who will listen to them. Usually they seek out other women to satisfy this need. If you’re one of the few males who will really listen to them you will be able to carve a swath through womenkind.
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Get a job you slacker. Any woman worth having will look for a man who can at least provide for himself.
6.Stop coming to Bullshido for social advice. I’m trying to be nice, but your threads are eating my brain. Find an older woman that will let you ask questions, an aunt or any well adjusted female. Your mother is not an option.
Thank you and fuck off.
This is almost painfully accurate.
Be comfortable and confident with yourself, and listen when people talk. That’s the secret.
So help me, I’m not insecure or a weakling. I just lack this very important thing, thus, I fail.
Here’s some advice: go ugly fast. I’m not kidding. In any social context, look at the quiet, shy, possibly not quite so attractive girls. Talk to them like you’re interested in what they have to say. Be friendly and don’t push. Find one with the same interests as yourself. Trust me, this girl will be so grateful and amazed you’re paying attention to her she’ll be completely into you.
Obligatory “JKDChick sure knows a lot about picking up women” joke
I’m told that I said this during one of my more (in)famous drunks on a fine Monday morning:
“A relationship is like a dog, man. You come on too strong, and it runs away. But if you’re all, like, chill and shit, it’ll come up to you and you can pet it. Then you take it home, and put it on a leash so it can’t run away.”
What I think this meant was that if you put too much thought into it and freak out about it too much then it won’t happen.
I also said this, but I don’t think it’s as helpful:
“A relationship is like a cake, man. It just has to happen.”
I’m still trying to figure out what the cake reference was for, but the general message is that a good relationship isn’t something that you can make happen. It’s not like you can say, “hey, I want a girlfriend so I’m going to go get me one.” Hookups with drunken skanks happen like that, but a girlfriend you have to just find someone who fits with you and it’ll happen by itself pretty much.
EDIT: This is coming from someone with Tux as his avatar (and it’s only Tux because I couldn’t find the FreeBSD Daemon), so maybe you should take it with a grain of salt.
picking them up and slamming them on their pretty faces?
Getting over shyness around women is easy, with booze. JKDChick’s advice about aiming low is right on the nail too.
This thread is so awesome it made me spill Flexall on my bleep.
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEOOOOOOOW!
Wataru, do not post the words “my genitals”.
EVER AGAIN!!!
As painfully true as this is, it is worth pointing out that nearly every survey ever done seems to show that married men still get more sex. So at the end of the day, Mr. Communication wins.
“Billie Baddie” get’s here once. Mr. Communication gets here again and again and again and again and againandagainandagainandagainandagain…
You lookin’ to make a quick buck or are you there for the long term “investment”? And although I sort of agree with your thing about marrying someone they can controll I suggest that the truly happy marriages are with the one’s where they can’t quite control. Not really. It’s kind of tapping into something pretty primal. 2 conflicting interests.
- Caretaker
- Protector
I think there’s an actual genetic drive to find someone who will be the good father and be kind and all that but there is an equally important interest in someone who can defend the home against invaders or wolves or whatever the fuck needed defending against over the past how ever many million years humans have been around. There’s a fair bit of sub or semi concious testing that goes on too. I think I do it with my GF too. No matter how much I may pull my hair out at her tantrums or unreasonable demands or her stubborness or general fury there is another part of me that kind of respects that and if I go back again to the evolutionary psychology thing again I think it’s the part of the genetic caveman in me that says, “Grrr…good woman. She can protect the home while I am out clubbing wooley mamoths or whatnot.”
No two people will ever last in a happy way who are not, on some level, equals.
Everyone finds their match one way or another.
I don’t see what’s so subconcious about it. I made my wife come camping with me with minimal equipment during shitty english autumn whether for a few days to see how much she complained before I asked her to marry me.
brilliant.
Costanza?
Required reading:
Tuckermax.com… go read his section on game.
Its all about game. If you have good game and aren’t disfigured you can get many, many women at ease. Women like confidence, humor, attention. Show them that and you won’t have any issues. You don’t need money, a nice car, a great job, or nice clothes.
Do this. You will soon forget about your problems.
Everything you said was good advice except for this. Smiling makes you look vulnurable.
Somebody give greese a “Scoreistan” forum.