Long ago I was a bit overweight and never asked women out because I was insecure.
I then got in shape, it got me initial attention (still does) but that does not seem to last with the ladies
I then got into MA, to boost my confidence. With my warped thinking, I thought somehow this would help get me a girlfriend (you know, make me seem more tough or something).
I then got into online dating and it works to some degree but people flake out on eachother online because of distance and because it is an easy thing to do. I am fairly good at asking women out on the internet though.
My question is this, I run into a number of available women that are kinda cool. Being that I am socially slow, how would you go about asking a woman out in person. Keep in mind that I don’t want to get in trouble with sexual harrasment and if they do say no, how do I keep things from being akward. Any advice? thanks
I remain,
Lotion
secondly, dont approach a girl with the thought of how can I ask her out. just talk to her, get to know her, find any common interests you have. take it from there. they are just girls, not aliens - talk to them!
and for the love of god, do not play the dating game over text messages or emails. you will turn into a freak who can only communicate through electronic means and not face to face.
and for the love of god, do not play the dating game over text messages or emails. you will turn into a freak who can only communicate through electronic means and not face to face.
f-u-c-k, this is what I have become. I have only done the internet thing for a few months, some women have really liked me. As a matter of fact I have got some women really interested in me. When I meet them, I lose the words. It is hard for me to speak. What is really weird is that I text people on the phone, I never call. Fuck, you read me.
I don’t know though, I have meet some cool ladies over the net. I am really bad with women (people in general). Over the last 5 years, I have had maybe like 1 or 2 dates. With the internet, I have had like almost one a month, which is not bad for me. I am not quite ready to give up the net but I would prefer to meet someone face to face.
at least I am nearly 30, jobless, a social reject, live with my parents. But not even I would pleasure myself to anime kiddie porn. Shame Wataru, Shame
Dude, if you’re in such great shape, just put on a too-small shirt and hit the meat market bar in your area. I mean, i see all the roid monkey assholes do it here every weekend, why should it be any different in your case?
Unless of course you’re hideously disfigured from the neck up or something. that might have something to do with it.
Honestly, i find some of the poopsex/underage/lolipedo comments to be over the top most times. Im not sure exactly what you did to receive all that flak, but you should try and come up with a way to redeem yourself. i have no idea what you could do though, so don’t ask me.
I spoke about a few things that were blown WAY out of proportion. Basically, by their logic, anyone who watches or views hentai is automatically a poopsex/underage/lolipedo etc. lover.
About the only thing I can do to do that is to
a: Have sex with a totally hot chick that’s 18+ years old, record it, and post it
No, I am not disfigured. Getting women’s initial attention is not the problem. I am a stud and I know this. It is the whole communication thing. Women don’t have that hard sexual desire until their clock starts ticking. Women want some guy that can communicate with them. It is the truth.
Hire an Imperial Commissar who will follow you around the bar and then execute you should you fail to secure an arbitrarily large number of phone numbers. It also helps if he has a megaphone so he can tell you what to say next.
“THAT’S IT, APPEAR INTERESTED BUT NOT TOO INTERESTED. MAKE A JOKE THAT DOESN’T INVOLVE THE INTERNET. SHE LAUGHS! NOW COMPLIMENT HER SMILE. NOT ONE STEP BACKWARD!”
