Recently, I saw that a bunch of you were being losers, so I’m gonna give you some advice. In all honesty, I really don’t have any trouble with women. I’m just really picky, to a fault. All of my neat little stories are the disastrous failures that I happen upon. Some of them happened years ago, some recently. I update the time and story and make it fun for you all to read.
First things first, the most common mistake every man makes when starting a relationship is this: He’s too afraid to put a woman in her place.
I’m not talking about backhanding the woman and telling her to make you some pie. No, in fact that’s the completely not thing I want you to do. I’m telling you to be assertive. Women are by nature, designed to be given instructions. They are actually better at doing things than men are, if they are guided correctly. Women are by design, hunters and followers. Which is why most things are marketed towards women. They are the perpetual propagators of fashion and trends. This is why most men who have no “fashion sense” still wear the same thing they wore in 1972.
As I’ve said before, they are cursed with a hurricane of indecisiveness and come with a tsunami of illogical bullshit. So, first thing you need to learn is to be more assertive and seem “in control.” This will branch off into dozens of other things that she won’t consciously realize.
That is lesson 1.
Edit:
Addendum to Lesson 1.
- Lesson 1a:
I guess I should probably go into this with more detail because it’s pretty important. I don’t claim to know everything about women or relationships, I know that I have very good and healthy relationships that allow me to grow and become a better person.
That being said, one thin I know for certain about women is that they hate it when guys try to act ‘this way’ or ‘that way’ to get them to like him.
Take a guy who is getting laid all the time, he gets labeled as a seductionist, he might even title himself. He might even go on the internet and post on a forum about “seduction tips.”
As males, we are all action-oriented. When we get the girl, we think it’s something we did. So the guy when trying to explain or compute what just happened, he will list the actions he did. Since all guys are a bit different from each other, their actions will be all different.
This begs the question: Why do we assume successful guys know why they’re successful?
When asked why they are successful, the successful guys generally don’t care, when asked, they point out their actions because as males, that’s how we fucking roll.
The best “seducers” do not even think they’re seducing, they’re just doing what they want as they please. They do not log onto the interbutt and download actions. They do what they want and ask about it later.
The second thing to understand is generally, girls are attracted to MEN. There needs to be a masculine component to a man. Nothing extreme of course, I mean I’m sure JFS, FFF, and the other super macho freaks we all know might love Sex and The City, but women don’t like them.
It’s however, important and very manly, to create your own world and live in it.
There is a reason why through most of history the woman is supposed to be “obedient” to the husband. And why the man is supposed to “cherish” the woman. Maybe it was due to feminist ideology or male apologists, but we have looked at history like that because man was in “power.” Right?
Wrong. Throughout history, women have always edged men in power. At least their sexuality anyway. The women were to be covered, their hair hidden, etc.
[size=2][b]Look at women today. Do you find any real uniqueness among women? No. They tend to be very herd-like. Women cannot make their own world, that’s what women need from us men.
There is a reason why when you set no boundaries on a woman, the raging storms of apocalypse occurs. (i.e. Hillary Clinton) Women not so much want boundaries as they want a world. And in the case of Hillary Clinton when no boundaries are set, The World.[/size][/b]