In every relationship I have ever been in the girl’s friends truly fucking hated me. This dates all the way back to Jr. High. I always do well with the family. I have never had a bad encounter with a dad or a brother. In fact I remain good friends with one of my exes brothers. But their group of “Girlfriends” is just an obstacle I cant seem to conquer. Its a pain in the ass I would like to avoid. Anyone else got this curse? or know what to do? Tried being really nice(didnt work) tried being a dick(didnt work)
Dude. You can never win with her friends.
You.Can.Never.Win.
Avoid them like the plague.
Then at least they don’t know you enough to judge you and then hate you.
Have you tried sleeping with them?
Seriously?
Some people are bitches. Somehow I doubt that it’s all thier fault, though.
That they dont like you, that is.
Find a joking way to call them “cunts”. You win if they laugh too.
Worked for me.
Actually man, what’s best is that you’re not really that chatty with 'em. Simply put, “avoid 'em like the plague”, but when they talk to you, be polite. DO NOT chase them around to be nice. Let them chase you. If they’re nice, you’re nice. If they’re not nice to you, just ignore them.
I don’t think I’d ever had this problem… Usually the friends and family like me… Hell, my friend’s gf (who was trying to sleep with me), her parents and her friends liked me more than they liked my friend.
I would agree with judoists advice… Don’t really chase them. But try to come off as someone “fun” I guess. That’s usually what I do. I crack some sexist jokes like “society failed when they let you have the vote” or “you know, back in the good ol’e days it took two women’s testimonies to equal one man’s in court…”. Then when they tell me that I’m a male chauvinist I tell them that my mother raised us alone in a male-dominant society.
Eh. In my experience, if her friends are nasty bitches, she usually ends up being one too. Sometimes you really can tell a lot about a person by the company they keep.
Dump her. Then once you do that fuck her best friend. Then after that her best friend’s best friend. If that doesn’t work fuck her mother.
A bit more serious, have you spoken to your GF about why her friends treat you that way?
It’s not about you. Females are fiercely competitive, they don’t like seeing their friends in successful relationships. Be polite, keep them at arms length, avoid drama. One winning stategy is to find something nice that you can say about them to your GF (or, even better, the other friends). She/they will relate it back to them (“Big Dozer thinks you’re cooking is awesome, taste in clothes is great, you decorate so nicely” etc). Since it’s coming indirectly they will accept it and it’s hard to hate on someone that’s spreading the love. Good luck.
At my wedding reception my buddy realized that I dated all but one of my wife’s bridesmaids. My relationship with them is amicable, but not real close.
Sadly, for most women, this is true. It’s probably the real problem.
Are you a fat loser by any chance?
What …really?
Why in Gods green earth would you care? It’s never occurred to me to care one bit about what a girls friends thinks of me.
never even crossed my mind?
Are her friends hot?
I don’t get it?
am I asking a lot of questions?
Is this as annoying as I think it is?
Why can’t I stop?
I would bet that it’s mostly “girls don’t like you” and the “friends” part isn’t really a factor.
It’s o.k. Dozer. I don;t like you either, and we’ve never even met!
J/K
Seriously though, most of the time your girlfriends friends are just jealous of her relationship. Sometimes, they are genuine assholes.
And sometimes, they are just the kind of stick in the muds that don’t understand a man needs to dig through his GF’s trash, follow her around wherever she goes, show up at her work when it’s inappropriate, stake out her house in his beat up Ford Pinto, threaten her friends, and occasionally call in the middle of the night to breath heavily into the phone for a while.
Fucking prudes man.
You forgot slip something her drink for kinky role play.
Just date anti-social women like me and you won’t have to put up with this shit!
[SIZE=2][quote=maofas;2394641]Just date anti-social women like me and you won’t have to put up with this shit![/quote]
You are an antisocial woman? It all makes sense now…
No, but really, w[/SIZE]hile I’ve been on the brunt end of female (lack of) logic on many cases, I refuse to believe that there is actually ZERO reason they would dislike you.
Also keep in mind how absurdly easy it is to offend females.
You are a girl?!
YOU ARE A GIRL?!
I mean, at the throwdown, didn’t you kick, like, EVERYBODY’S ass?!
Who are you, Cyborg Santos?!