show pics?
girls with a little bit of muscle is super hot.
especially if they do lots of squats
drool …
Namaste hit the nail right on the head.
Lily, you are a lady. We all know (think) that here. Unless you start taking steroids you will never become less feminine.
You’ll just end up as one of Macho’s avatars.
Reprogram yourself to think “pics”.
Isnt Lily really a dude?
I’m told all women on the internet are.
Sorry! only meant it as words of encouragement. I dont have any idea what Lily looks like and I don’t have an e-boner for her. Wish I could get my girlfriend to work out…
Send pics to people, who will then tell you that you look nice/fit/hot/whatever.
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Hey Lily,
In all seriousness, I’d suggest posting somewhere else. 
- On T-Nation.com’s boards. http://www.t-nation.com/tmagnum/index.jsp
Either the Powerful Women forum or the Muscle Sorority forum are 90% women who all train pretty seriously and I’m sure may have struggled with exactly this starting out and probably have some more applicable advice than you might get here.
You could also try -
www.figureathlete.com which is the T-nation sister site for women figure competitors - but it is mostly focused on competitive training and it’s proably only the “off-topic” board that’d appropriate for this question.
For the record, I was being half serious.