I don’t know where else to post this article I found.
"My brother and I have been practicing BJJ since we were kids. We are both brown belts now, and are in our late teens. I was amazed to discover this site because, until recently, I thought we were the only guys to be aware of the sexual side to Brazilian jiu-jitsu.
My brother was intrigued by your column, and even though we are not gay, he felt that it was the only place we could turn to for assistance with the issues we are trying to confront.
It was at a very early stage of our training that we first became aware of the erotic nature of the sport we had decided to enter into…"