Ok. So me and the mother of my child split up recently and she’s about to move in with one of her girlfriends about 40 minutes away. She had been staying at 10 minues away at her parents place. I wanted to see my daughter before she left because I’m scared something will happen to her and her daddy can’t come rescue her. Her mom said no she isn’t going out of her way for me anymore.
So my question is for the fathers here. Am I being a bitch or is she being a bitch?
I posted this in YMAS to get some humor to lighten the mood, but I would like some real answers somewhere in the mix.
I fail to see what this has to do with Your Martial Arts. Or sucking for that matter.
To correct this, and to make this thread worthy of the Your Martial Arts Sucks forum, I suggest a 300 word description of the last blow job you got from aforementioned Baby Mama before she started pushing your around or whatever the fuck it is you’re talking about.
Get custody/visitation rights. Move as close to your daughter as possible. No drama. At all. Don’t stalk, be polite, never argue in front of kid. Take care of business. Leave all frustration at the gym; seriously workout hard so you an be the proper person outside of gym.
(I’m assuming this is going to moved to BT or LLL unless the OP is going to have a cage match with the ex over the daughter)
Well, you fucked up a long way back. Pro tip for you youngsters: having kids out of marriage has a very high chance of fucking up your life-even (sometimes especially) if you’re a guy. But anyway, back to how you’re fucked: as the child’s father, you have a legal and financial responsibility to your daughter. Assuming you don’t fight for custody (sounds like you’re not going to), your ex is going to be able to get money from you for child support. You also, however, have a legal right to see your daughter and be a part of her life. Fathers do have rights. You can get a court to order to mandate visitation, etc. although I don’t quite know how it works in NC. All of this, however, involves getting into the family court system–which is unspeakably horrible and I don’t recommend it if you can work it out amicably with your ex.
[QUOTE=Res Judicata;2691819](I’m assuming this is going to moved to BT or LLL unless the OP is going to have a cage match with the ex over the daughter)
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What a delightful suggestion! This should settle your differences. And it would be nice if all the match ends like the ones in Battle Bang.
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Well, you fucked up a long way back. Pro tip for you youngsters: having kids out of marriage has a very high chance of fucking up your life-even (sometimes especially) if you’re a guy. But anyway, back to how you’re fucked: as the child’s father, you have a legal and financial responsibility to your daughter. Assuming you don’t fight for custody (sounds like you’re not going to), your ex is going to be able to get money from you for child support. You also, however, have a legal right to see your daughter and be a part of her life. Fathers do have rights. You can get a court to order to mandate visitation, etc. although I don’t quite know how it works in NC. All of this, however, involves getting into the family court system–which is unspeakably horrible and I don’t recommend it if you can work it out amicably with your ex.[/QUOTE]
An inquiry, Mr. Lawyer man: If our unfortunate OP were to sue for custody and win, would the Baby Mama be obligated to pay him child support in NC?
[QUOTE=The Question;2691820]What a delightful suggestion! This should settle your differences. And it would be nice if all the match ends like the ones in Battle Bang.
An inquiry, Mr. Lawyer man: If our unfortunate OP were to sue for custody and win, would the Baby Mama be obligated to pay him child support in NC?[/QUOTE]
Presumably, although I don’t know NC law (I practice in New York in a completely different area of the law). But that virtually never happens–the family law courts generally have a very strong bias towards women in custody disputes.
There is no real solution to this as I don’t have the money to move and my work is sporadic, so I can’t try to go to court to get visitation rights.
She has never tried to keep my daughter from me, I just felt like she was being a snide bitch because she wants to get at me for "never doing what she asks."That’s why she left me lol. But this has got me feeling like she might try some jenky shit because she tried to throw in my face that I just had our daughter for 3 days even though I have hardly been keeping her because we thought my new job would keep me busy through the week.
On a side note, this blowjob story, is it the last time my dick was in her mouth or the last time she just sucked me off?
Goddamn, man. Don’t post your kid’s name on a fucking internet forum. Not even first name. Especially not an unusually spelled name. Damn. Maybe a mod can shitcan that post.
I’m in NC and not a lawyer, but a product of divorce. You’re not going to get full custody of your daughter unless you can prove her mother is a danger to her. And even then, she’ll probably get her back when she gets herself unfucked.
You may be able to get joint custody if you’re willing to fight like hell for it, but my opinion is that’s a pretty unstable way for a kid to live. Every other weekend is probably what the courts will guarantee you. Probably best to take it and make the most of it.
It really doesn’t matter if your ex is being a bitch. She can do whatever the fuck she wants short of keeping your daughter away from you completely and you get to suck on it. You should probably just make nice as suggested above and try not to make her want to fuck with you just to be spiteful.
[QUOTE=Devil;2691845]Goddamn, man. Don’t post your kid’s name on a fucking internet forum. Not even first name. Especially not an unusually spelled name. Damn. Maybe a mod can shitcan that post.
I’m in NC and not a lawyer, but a product of divorce. You’re not going to get full custody of your daughter unless you can prove her mother is a danger to her. And even then, she’ll probably get her back when she gets herself unfucked.
You may be able to get joint custody if you’re willing to fight like hell for it, but my opinion is that’s a pretty unstable way for a kid to live. Every other weekend is probably what the courts will guarantee you. Probably best to take it and make the most of it.
It really doesn’t matter if your ex is being a bitch. She can do whatever the fuck she wants short of keeping your daughter away from you completely and you get to suck on it. You should probably just make nice as suggested above and try not to make her want to fuck with you just to be spiteful.[/QUOTE]
Good call on the name thing, I’m still new to this whole parenting thing. But yeah, I’m definitely trying to be the bigger person when she wants to argue, as hard as she makes it sometimes. But thanks for the insight on the custody battle. Would she have to hire a lawyer or would it be free for her to try and fuck me?
@TheQuestion: Dude, I can’t believe you really thought that was going somewhere. Go watch some more Battle Fuck, or whatever it is.
Edit: Took her name out of the post, no need for deletion.
[QUOTE=jwilde88;2691851]Would she have to hire a lawyer or would it be free for her to try and fuck me?
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Not sure what you mean. She’s got the kid. If she tells you to get fucked and you can’t see the kid, then that’s what you’ve got to deal with until you get the court to demand otherwise.
I think every other weekend is the typical visitation the court will enforce. Maybe you can get your daughter more if you and the ex are both mature enough to play nice for the kid’s sake. If she ends up hating you she may fuck you at every turn just for fun. For instance, the court says you can see your daughter every other weekend. You want to see her more and your ex really doesn’t care but since she hates your guts she only let’s you see her every other weekend. Or she decides to move three states away just because she can. That type of shit.
[QUOTE=Devil;2691857]Not sure what you mean. She’s got the kid. If she tells you to get fucked and you can’t see the kid, then that’s what you’ve got to deal with until you get the court to demand otherwise.
I think every other weekend is the typical visitation the court will enforce. Maybe you can get your daughter more if you and the ex are both mature enough to play nice for the kid’s sake. If she ends up hating you she may fuck you at every turn just for fun. For instance, the court says you can see your daughter every other weekend. You want to see her more and your ex really doesn’t care but since she hates your guts she only let’s you see her every other weekend. Or she decides to move three states away just because she can. That type of shit.[/QUOTE]
I was under the impression that whatever parent has her at the time can tell the other to fuck off, assuming there is no custody agreement in place. That’s what my question stemmed from. I thought she would have to take me to court before she said I couldn’t see her. I’m pretty sure that’s the case because one of her girlfriends went through this shit while my ex was pregnant and her childs father was keeping her son from her.
Edit: Assuming you are correct though, would I have to hire a lawyer or could one be appointed to me? If I have to hire one, should I try for a pro bono lawyer or would that probably just fuck me worse?
[QUOTE=jwilde88;2691851] @TheQuestion: Dude, I can’t believe you really thought that was going somewhere. Go watch some more Battle Fuck, or whatever it is.
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No crazy fucking stories? How could you disappoint me like this? I’m crestfallen, motherfucker. Crestfallen!
And it’s ‘Battle Bang’, bro ‘Battle Bang’. That shit is crucial if you’re going to do a Google search or some shit.
[QUOTE=Res Judicata;2691826]Presumably, although I don’t know NC law (I practice in New York in a completely different area of the law). But that virtually never happens–the family law courts generally have a very strong bias towards women in custody disputes.[/QUOTE]
In your opinion, Judge, why do you think this bias exists? Because I find that it often leads to some out of hand shit happening.
[QUOTE=jwilde88;2691865]Is it like Ultimate Surrender?
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Not really. But Ultimate Surrender is very cool. May even be cooler if you prefer to watch your girl on girl action over the regular servings of pussy pounding. What Battle Bang does offer is fucking in a cage.
[QUOTE=jwilde88;2691861]I was under the impression that whatever parent has her at the time can tell the other to fuck off, assuming there is no custody agreement in place. That’s what my question stemmed from. I thought she would have to take me to court before she said I couldn’t see her. I’m pretty sure that’s the case because one of her girlfriends went through this shit while my ex was pregnant and her childs father was keeping her son from her.
Edit: Assuming you are correct though, would I have to hire a lawyer or could one be appointed to me? If I have to hire one, should I try for a pro bono lawyer or would that probably just fuck me worse?
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Yeah, you’re confusing the shit out of me. Why would she have to take you to court to say you can’t see the kid? She just tells you. What are you going to do, raid the house commando style and take the kid? That doesn’t mean she’s within her rights but you’ll have to wait for the court to enforce your rights if she plays it that way.
And yeah, I guess you could try the same tactic. Go ahead and see how that works out for you. First, the Sheriff’s department is going to show up at your door and they’re going to be none too pleased about having to deal with this shit. If they don’t take the kid back to her mother right then, the court’s going to give the kid back to her mother when you do get to court. Then they’re going to give you visitation every other weekend and you’re going to be dealing with an enraged ex forever who has 99% of the say-so about what happens in your child’s life.
I don’t really know what to tell you about the lawyer. My advice would be to be hire the best one you can afford if you can afford one at all. If not, find out if you’ll get a court appointed lawyer or whatever. I have no clue.
[QUOTE=The Question;2691868]Not really. But Ultimate Surrender is very cool. May even be cooler if you prefer to watch your girl on girl action over the regular servings of pussy pounding. What Battle Bang does offer is fucking in a cage.[/QUOTE]
Ultimate Surrender, Bang Bus, and Dancing Bear. Any more is just greed.